Saif- Kareena's wedding date confirmed!!

Is this an important function in India?
Do these people even consider the purity in a celebration called wedding?

It is a world know fact that they are now living together. Even if it was private if they had a "Nikah" or a "Registered marriage" before starting this living together, there is a meaning in calling this occasion as wedding.

The purity of uniting in marriage is not there in this relationship anymore.
Pretending or even living themselves as husband and wife for more than a year and now to waste "money" in this name.

They both can just sign in into the Registrar's office and then proclaim and "legally bonded" and then utilize the money they plan on wedding onto something else.

Oh no...But then when will she enter into the "Prettiest Bride" ever competition (or)
How will she showcase her/his wealth?????

This is only an arena for the so called "Indian Wedding Drama" in yet another member of the Bollywood family.

The Movie - 3

I have never imagined about me writing a movie review. But thanks to the crew of "3" for forcing me into this.First of all the words of the song "Why this kolaveri?" is very apt to be asked to entire crew?Story: Is there a story to be told here? A school boy getting attracted to a white -u colour - u girl is quite natural.It is a natural phenomenon on the process called adolescence.These are sort of things that comes across every individuals life.
So what it is about the director/story teller is attepmting to tell on the first phase of life?
And the boy after helping a girl immediately starts following the girl (stalking in other terms).
The girl too at the age of puberty starts getting "feelings" which is also quite natural. In how many more movies would you attempt to show this Dhanush? We all knew you had such an adolescence. But it is too late now as you have grown up to have two kids yourself. Start "acting" and stop being yourself please. It is too boring...movie after movie...
Scenes: The boy and girl meeting at home/terrace. Is this a scene worth telling? Or even shooting?
It is not "LOVE" it is lust which makes the boy run after her eyes.Could not stop telling it that nothing but lust has been portrayed in the movie. The relationship between Ram and Janani according to the movie cannot be termed as "love" at all.Other characters in the movie: What kind of a dad did Prabhu act in this movie? And the role of Janani's dad is also very artificial.
And the mom's at the two end......Ram's mom is all concerned of making her son eat and sending him on car/bike to display status.
Highly ambitious parents of Janani...Aspires to send her to US after 12th :-)
What a joke???Are you even in this century???But we could make out some things from this movie. Since the story and direction was by Aiswarya Dhanush, we can assume
this is how life revolves in the high class society of Chennai.Dad's and mom's are least concerned aabout their adolescent kids. Instead of concentrating on studies all these
kids are diverting their attention to the "puberty" changes which happens to their body.
It is very obvious that both the girl and the boy in this movie is abnormal.The so called "first - night" scene...What impact does that night have on the life of Ram/Janani. The excitement
shown by the character Janani is very funny.
She has already tasted the forbidden fruit once by inviting her boy friend to stay night when her parents were not at home.And what else is the director trying to convey??????
Getting married on pub?....
It is very disgusting to degrade the marital relationship to a small yellow thread to be wrapped around a girl's neck at any venue.If this is justified people would stand in queue all along public toilets to conduct their "first nights" after getting married at pubs.
And how and when did this guy get some abnormal behaviours? And where the hell did the wife go not to realize changes on her husband???This itself shows how immature both the boy and girl were, when making a big commitment such as a marriage.
A marriage should be a relation which should be constructed carefully so that each individual entering into this relationship should be capable of taking care of each other.Each should be mental,physical and moral support to each other.The depiction of this movie is based on impression that "marriage" is a relation based on lust.And he took her as wife to "make her happy" and this happiness was never witnessed as a two way responsibility. The madness of the girl drove the immature boy to suicide.
The wife who should have been also a best friend has been playing the role lesser than a friend.
The parents though he was only child neglected the boy?And the only person who noticed the wierd change of his behaviour was Senthil (his best friend????)It was only one day the girl went to her parents' but it was the same day when he got mad??
What about the days before and days after until his friend came to stay along?
A stupid movie with some stupid thoughts.None of the characters were playing their role they were expected to play in their life. And no idea where does such incidents take place? Utopia?
Never portray "marriage" as a license to sex. Or the end point of love making!Marriage is much more than that. Husband and Wife - have equal responsibility towards each others physical and mental
well being of each other.
For this to happen both entering into marital relation should be mature enough (Physically and mentally the age could be 24 to 26 for girls and guys...it should be 26 to 28) So any one entering into serious relationship before these age - Just beware of what happened to Ram.

People who forget to smile

I get disturbed mostly on a  day when I meet people who simply forget to smile.
They show a face which always have a grit/grin towards all(including me!!)
This bothers me a lot because I am a person who always keep a smile towards all whom I
meet that day.
So when I don't get a smile in return, I feel so much frustrated.
What costs them for a smile?

Population

An idiot's comment on population growth in India - "Our main issue now is to reduce population at any cost, but the real fact that some of the religions are not adhering to the rules and regulations of family planning:::We two we have two policy shold be followed strictly and that is not followed by them:::To whom we should say all this::"

Recently read that in China people have started online community to book brides and grooms for their newborns as there are shortage of younger generation due to this manmade "population growth restriction".

It is basic Human rights these idiots are trying to interfere.All these bullshit people should first concentrate on "how many new born females are getting killed each day/hour in India".
Then about how many woman are getting killed each day. Then about all those innocent people who are getting killed.

There is no things to worry in the present so that the man is worried about the "population growth".
Imagine if US stops allowing Indians to enter their country for same reason. I mean stop. Not reduce.
We can't imagine it??

Then why the hell are you worried about allowing new borns sent by God to this world??
This world is common to all human who has lived here,living here and yet to arrive here.
The main reason for this world to grow selfish and sadist is because they do not have basic family values.
They don't learn any value in family these days . Because these days there is no real families.
There is a husband - who works earns and spends for himself and kids, there is a wife who works earns and spends for self and
kids, and there are kids who utilize the two way monetary benefits of mother and father.
Grandparents - sitting on net (like you) and worrying about population growth.
Kith and kins all face-booking,liking,poking and meeting on Skype.

Value???Where the hell is value in a family except for the Bills.

Olden days people lived in a completed society called families before placing them into this bigger society called outer world.
Inter personal skills and communications were much better in olden days because a child learns effective communication and better survival
tactics from within the family first.

Who am I?

I am a representative of the majority of the population of my country - The Working Class or the
Middle class.That is how the society terms it.
After a generation was promoted to the Upper Middle Class from the Lower Middle Class.
I learned the term Upper Middle class during my 9th class when a lesson about Bill Gates was taught
in my matriculation syllabus's English Text.
The Upper Middle class meant - people who are not so wealthy but could afford to meet their requirements.
Before I got my job as an IT/Software engineer my family belonged to Lower Middle class because we
could not afford to pay even the tuition fees incurred.
But sooner or later we managed to loan and pay the tuition fee but a little more than the other candidates of the same class.
This was because the institution/educational organization as we can call them today [all of them which I completed until my graduation] levied a fine on late payment of fee.
So as a sum total I paid more fees on the same institution where much richer students also studied.
I do not understand but why still we belong to the "middle class".
I am also from a Minority community in India. The most attacked community worldwide but the most Peace loving community.